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| gottaluvdavillains
Thu 10/11/2007 11:25a | <My boss is getting a nasty cold...I kinda feel bad that I am ditching him for the rest of the week>
All the better to not be there...No need to keep passing a cold around!! ANOTHER reason I don't wanna w--k!! DH and the Kiddies bring enough of that home to me... Oh my Gosh if I were to really get sick forget it...they give me enough greif the on day a month I am overly grumpy!!!
Okay so here's the latest and yes before you ask HER is blonde(on offence to those who can't help being born that way - but have overcome it!!)
First response last night (I was grumpy last night and in bed early)
6:40
<fine, asap since you won't talk to me but whatever I give up>
Yep that was the whole message.
Next one 6:51
<dear melissa,
you will have your money one week from friday all of it and it appears you do not want to be friends anymore
what ever I thought we would be friends forever. but what do I know there is no need to reply to this because
I give up!!!! I hope you have a nice life>
Nice emails huh. My emails were nice I think Here is the first one less the money breakdown -
<Here is a breakdown of the total from last weeks trip. I will need to be paid for this plus the previous $550 as soon as possible, hubby is not happy with me about our finances and if I don't get this money quickly, I will have to cancel my upcoming trips. Joe was also asking when you thought you would be able to get my ring to me. I have listed the breakdown below....The previous total included the cost of the last Disneyland trip plus the check I cashed for you - that my bank wouldn't let me deposit during your bankruptcy - you then gave it to J and you said he kept the money.>
The next one was a few days later and was...
<I am resending the first email - please let me know you got this otherwise I will mail you a copy. I am somewhat confuse as before we left you assured me you would have about $500 for me the following week - that week would have been last week and I still have not received any money. I am still trying to work out my trips with Joe and need to figure in the money you owe me - so please respond to this and let me know where the money part stands.
Thanks
Melissa>
Plus the first email included...
I responded to the one about having all my money by next friday with -
<Great thanks - please send C's clothes back also>
So now we sit here and wait - of course next friday I will be Trick or Treating with Mickey so we will see if she delivers the money to hubby or not!!
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182
| gottaluvdavillains
Thu 10/11/2007 11:32a | MM - I hope you gals have a great trip and make sure you take mental notes to share with us when you get back - especially the part where she figures out you are not going to Seatle!! Not too many $1 beers now as you are the driver when you get to SD!!
Tink - I use to be a Notary when I w**ked...I w**ked for a bank and then for a bottled water company....The joke around here is it's a good thing I got my diploma in accounting - I can always adjust the budget to get another DL trip...
Mickey - I hope you are feeling better and all your meds have helped stabilize your system without making you feel funny - It seems like sometimes the treatments are almost as bad as the orignal problem!!
Mater - Until you can find a new location for the computer (I know I have to wait until DH decided to actually GO to work and not telecomute) to use ours but we're worth waiting for - right girls!! |
183
| mater4
Thu 10/11/2007 11:58a | Good afternoon ladies! MM have fun with your DD and don't get too crazy from all those $1 beers. I know I need to move my computer the question is where? I have been up since 7am and waiting.
Hello Mickey nice to meet you and glad you can join.
Villians I will talk to Tink about sprinkling pixie dust everywhere in hopes of getting your money before your next trip.
Tink sprinkle some pixie dust please. |
184
| Tinkerbell819
Thu 10/11/2007 12:28p | Oh good, everyone is here! We can all wish MollysMom the bestest bestest trip ever!!!
I agree about the dollar beers, not too many if you're driving. Especially driving someplace unfamiliar, lol! The "to go" idea of DH's sounds great! Bring an empty container and fill 'er up!
Villains, I'm glad that you got a reply, even though the replies were rude. I really want for you to get the money back, it's bad enough what happened on your trip, but to lose the $$$, also, I know that would really be a thorn in my side.
Your notes were very nice. You never said you didn't want to be friends anymore, you didn't deserve a nasty response like that. I hope she comes to her senses and apologizes. Maybe it's the dentist pills.
It would be nice if the money came BEFORE next Fri. so you could use it for your trip. Hopefully, she will at least show up with it so you can use it on your Nov. trip and I'll know who to borrow money from! lol sprinkling pixie dust now...
More pixie dust being sprinkled for MM and her DD, have a great time! We'll miss you!
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185
| mickeynewe
Thu 10/11/2007 12:29p | Awww, there's the Mollysmom I know and love--- the one that doesn't mind scolding on the very first day back.
Don't worry, Tink, I'm sure that if you did not say anything mean about me at all-- Mollysmom is the one that ALWAYS likes to start trouble. I won't believe a word she says about you.
Well, I wish it were my daughter's busy schedule that I could blame my absence on, but its not. But, since you are leaving today, my send-off gift will be NOT to yak your ear off telling you what has been going on the past couple of months. Needless to say, it has not been fun.
WHATEVER-- I'm here now looking for some good old girl-time fun to get a little more normalcy back in my life. So let the good times roll.....
grab a shot, grab a beer, (I'll drink my shirley temple) and let the party begin---
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186
| mickeynewe
Thu 10/11/2007 12:35p | Thanks Villians and Mater for your kind words! |
187
| gottaluvdavillains
Thu 10/11/2007 12:54p | Mickey-that was nice of you to spare MM but she'll be gone at 3 so then we can all yak all we want ;)
Tink thanks for the dusting! My DS18 was reading what she wrote and pointed out there was no mention of my ring...SO we will have to wait and see!!
I guess I should do some housew**k so I can keep my j*b as a stay at home mom!! |
188
| MOLLYSMOM
Thu 10/11/2007 2:13p | Geez...I leave for an hour to go to lunch, and you guys go nutso here with the postings.
villains...you kidding me? That was her response? So, like we figured, she has NO IDEA how awful she made your last trip, and she can't possibly imagine why you would be upset with her?!? I'm going to guess that deep down, she has a clue of SOME sort...blonde or not. I'm blonde by the way, and was deeply wounded and offended by your blonde bash. :) Your e-mails weren't nasty at all. I'm glad you will be getting your money back. That way you can buy me something really nice in DL. Odd that she made no mention of the ring. Makes you go hmmmmmmmm.
mater...either you move your computer, or hubby is going to have to get a different job so his sleepy time doesn't conflict with LP time. How comfortable is your sofa?? Won't that work for him? A sofa or Lazy Boy is good enough for most men...what makes HIM so special?
tink...just because I SAID I was leaving at 3 doesn't MEAN I'm leaving at 3. Maybe I'm gonna hang around here and spy on you guys talking smack about me. Maybe I just told you 3 to throw you all off.
mickey...now I gotta scold you again. I would not mind one bit if you talked my ear off before I left...good or bad, you gotta know that we love you and we have been worried about you. What are internet stalker friends for, anyway?
mickey...keep a close eye on tink and villains...they suffer from short term memory loss, and lack of focus. Case in point.......
villains and tink...once again (in less than two weeks, mind you) DO YOU NOT PAY ATTENTION??!?!?!?!? When did I say I was driving when I got to San Diego???? I made a point of saying that our hotel is across the street from Balboa Park so I wouldn't HAVE TO drive!!!!! See what I have to work with here, mickey??? Luckily, it appears that mater4 has cognitive skills.
I am having flight fears today. I will get on the plane (mostly because of the $1 beer), and I won't be a big baby about it, but I still find my comfort on the ground. I made it clear to my folks that if I die, they are supposed to make sure DH gets the house. As you know, I call him DH, but we haven't gotten married yet because we keep spending our wedding $$ to go to DL. Better deal, more fun. After 9 years of being together, the house shouldn't be an issue, but for whatever reason, I have been obsessing about it for the last week or so. I will feel much better once we land safely in SD. I have promised myself, DH, and the Lord above that I will either marry DH upon my return, or get my rear to my mortgage company and have his name added to the paperwork, or get to my lawyer's and get a will drawn up. I never worried about my mortality until this trip came up. We ALWAYS do things together. This is the FIRST time in 9 years that DD and I will be headed somewhere alone on a plane without him. I'm very stressed. I need a bit more of tink's pixie dust.
Ok, I suppose I should yell across the hall and see if my boss has anything he wants me to do before I go. If he has "big enough ones" to actually give me w*&k, I'll be gone for a bit, but I'll pop on to say "bye" before I leave. If he's smart and leaves me alone, I'll only be gone for the next 10 minutes or so...break time. |
189
| mater4
Thu 10/11/2007 2:38p | MM don't get to crazy with the suggestion that DH needs different job. He has one of the best retirement plans that will allow me to retire at DL. Not to mention my DL trips will be a thing of the past without it. Like Villians my job is housew**k among many other things. By the way thanks for the compliment. My cognitive skills come and go as I am a blonde also.:) Anyway have a good flight and we will look forward to your return. |
190
| mickeynewe
Thu 10/11/2007 2:50p | Personally, I think that MM is just playing all of us. After a day or so we're going to start say, "aw...where's MM...I hope she's having fun...the boards are too quiet without her...we miss her..." and then she's just going to jump up and smack us all in the face and say, "SEE, YOU KNOW YOU'D BE LOST WITHOUT ME" ppst Yeah, that's her game plan and to think she's using her poor little DD to work us.
okay... so i guess we WILL miss her-- a little, I just said a "little".
BUT, she's got to get out of that freaky morbid-cr*p mood! She's going to be just fine. The plane ride is going to be just fine. She's gonna have a great time and forget all about us until she get back and rubs in our faces what a great time she had. DH will be just fine-- the house will be just fine! But, if it makes you feel any better, I said a little prayer that "mollysmom and her daughter" are just fine on their trip. So now you know that things really will be JUST FINE!
Wow, so much info to process--- not sure where to begin.
Villians-- a friend would never treat you that badly. I say good riddance, well after you get your money back anyways. You tried to help, she took advantage of your kindness. No tears lost there. I just feel badly that you feel badly. As Mollysmom said, you've got friends--- albeit in her words "internet stalker friends", but hey they're great all the same! I saw nothing unkind in your emails.
Mater, a man can sleep anywhere and I doubt your typing can really wake him up. Heck, guys snore louder than us girls can type. Turn about fair play!
MM (again) -- You want me to keep an eye on Tink and Villians because they have memory problems and lack of focus. If you ONLY knew how hilarious that is-- and how ironic you asked me to do that. Maybe I should mention the doc just took me off the "stupid pill".
Getting a little wound-up MM? Someone get this gal a shooter now, forget her 5 p.m. work day. This girl needs a sedative now. Otherwise she might just ask her boss if his cahunas are big enough to give her more work? Then, not only would she be wound-up, she be j*bless.
Mater, I look forward to getting to know you on the boards. I'm not really this outrageous and out-there. Actually, I'm a really shy individual. My stalker friends just bring out the loud-mouth in me. Ask 4Disnee on the boards, she'll tell you how quite and reserved I really am.
Tink, thanks so much for the email. I've missed you guys too. Just been a messed up few months.
And since you asked for MM here are the details....
Trying to remember the timeline-- I'm not sure when we went to DL if I had gotten on medication yet or not, I think I did. But, I ended up having an allergic reaction to the first medication and had to be taken off.
I was then prescribed a new medication and have been on that since. Wonderful side effects, nausea and extreme tiredness. Eventually, as my body adjusted they started to go away. Okay, life is finally starting to get back to normal and feeling tolerable.
Just about to get license back any day-- so excited and happy! *smack* Another seizure.
Doc decides to prescribe a new med on top of the old one. Side effects are horrendous. Nauseated, dizzy, memory problems, confusion, (hence while it is called the stupid pill), lost 8 lbs. in a week. Was on this for two weeks and I had to increase the dosage this past weekend. Allergic reaction and found myself having problems breathing.
Still suffering from outbreaks of a rash on my chest, arms, and neck because it is still in my system, but at least I can breathe pretty much normal again.
So now I have a hiatus for a few weeks before the doc wants to put me on another drug. Personally, I want to go off all of the medication, but my family doesn't want me to because of the risk of subsequent seizures.
Oh, and that resets my driving privileges back to ground zero so I have a minimum of another few months before I can even apply again.
So the moral of the story is enjoy each and every day to the fullest. You never know when life is going to throw you a curve ball. A year ago, I would have never imagined my life like this or having to make so many adjustments-- or that this could have even happened.
See, I told you it was a downer-- now you got me all mopey again. Girl, you had best be livening up this party! |
